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Marriage Guide - Step by step planning advice

The most important checklist:

  • If you are having a religious ceremony, contact the Religious Celebrant or if you are having a civil marriage contact the District Registrar, to agree the date of your wedding as soon as you have decided when you wish to be married.
  • For either a religious or civil ceremony, contact the District Registrar to request marriage notices approximately three months before your proposed wedding date.
  • Return completed marriage notices to the District Registrar approximately six weeks before the date of your wedding.
  • Remember that your notices must be displayed for 14 clear days before a schedule can be issued or a marriage take place.
  • Confirm all the arrangements with the person conducting your marriage in the week leading up to your marriage.
  • If your marriage is being conducted by a religious celebrant, collect the Marriage Schedule, in person, from the Registrar in the week leading up to your wedding day.
  • Immediately after the wedding you will be asked to sign the Marriage Schedule in permanent black ink, the bride signing in her maiden surname.
  • If a religious celebrant conducted your marriage, arrange to have the signed schedule returned to the District Registrar by a responsible person within three days of the wedding taking place.
  • Your marriage is registered on the next working day after it is returned.
  • Your marriage certificate is collected or posted.

Good Luck

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